When I was pregnant with Mason we went through a million different names. I don’t know if it’s because he’s from Virginia and I’m from NY but we just didn’t like the same names. It was ridiculous.
At one point he mentioned that he liked the name Mason and I was like eh. It’s okay.
But as the weeks went on that was the one we kept coming back to.
And then it happened. Ms. Kourtney Kardasian gave birth to a little boy and named him Mason.
I about how a heart attack. I went into a rage I was yelling at B I was so ANGRY that this B stole my baby name! SHE STOLE IT. And yes I’m well aware of how irrational this is.
And that’s when it hit me. We may not have solidified it but Mason was the name of our son.
But even then we didn’t tell anyone that that was his name. I didn’t tell my family that we had decided on something. I didn’t want anyone hearing my child’s name and tearing it apart. I had no desire for that to happen.
I felt the same way when I was pregnant with Elena. Not only were we Team Green but I was also going to keep our choices to ourselves until D-Day. And we did. Heck I don’t even think I had mentioned the name to B before we had her. I was so in love with the name and I knew the later I brought it up the more likely he was to agree too it. And well it worked.
But I know not everyone is like that, on The Bump there is a whole board devoted to baby names and asking people’s opinions and there is website called Belly Ballot that allows you to create a list and share it with Facebook so people can vote.
If that’s your style than I think that’s awesome but for me personally I think we’re going to hide the name again. We want SOMETHING to be a surprise. But only time will tell.
I will tell you that I have a couple of contenders high on my list. I’ve loved the name Lincoln since I was pregnant with Mason but B absolutely refuses and it’s driving me insane because when I think of our little family I think of Mason, Elena and Lincoln.
And then I wonder, well what if this baby isn’t a boy?! What if it’s a girl? I mean Mother’s intuition has been known to be incorrect although I have yet to be proven wrong!
I really love Scarlett but it’s another name that B has shot down and even if he didn’t I’m not sure if it’s a name that I could name *my* daughter even though I think it’s beautiful. What do you think? Mason, Elena, and Scarlett. Does it go? Does it go as well as Mason, Elena and Lincoln?
And then of course I feel like Charlotte is still in the running a little bit. But a part of me thinks NO that’s Mason’s name girl name. Does that even make sense!?
I’m glad that, God Willing of course, I still have 28 weeks to figure out this baby’s name!
What do you think of these names? Have any ideas for me or baby name book suggestions?